In general, especially when working for another company other than my site. Shooting is alot like a one night stand. I don’t know the cameraman/director or the male talent. While it is exciting and a new adventure, it is also very impersonal. I don’t know how they shoot, how professional or perverted they will get. There is just alot going on in my mind. Usually I am quite and shy, figuring out the whole vibe and situation.
Takes me a while to warm up to people. Figuring out if I am in a safe situation or not. There are tons of perverts and predators in this industry. So I am very cautious.
Many people in this industry are very nice and down to earth in the Miami part of the industry. People in LA always for the most part have hidden agendas(95%).
So once I work with people I know and trust, shooting can be a blast. Constantly cracking jokes, having fun and laughs on and off the camera. I can do this for my site, but shooting for other companies, NO… When working for another company they have a certain feel or look to their shoots and don’t like to vary from that formula. But for me here, I am very relaxed and know that ya’ll get the jokes and laughs.
Just can’t take sex seriously on or off camera, sex is way to much fun to be all serious constantly. And if I am getting fucked on or off camera, might as well make the most out of it. Sadly most girls don’t think that way and worry about fat rolls or funny faces as they cum. Which takes them out of the moment of pure enjoyment. And when you are twisted into a pretzel for a shot it isn’t easy to orgasm with 3 or 4 muscle cramps from the crazy position.
Now to chemisty…. We all love to watch sex between people with chemistry… It is impossible to force chemistry… I don’t like one-night stands. I like having a boyfriend and sex over and over and over again. I like being comfortable and knowing I can explore different aspects of sex and sexualities… When I have a director I know and trust, a male talent I know and trust then there can be chemistry. Like the scene with Eden, Eric and I, we shot together or them together several times. We all knew there was a great level of trust. So we could all relax and let the moment of fun and sex just flow. Hence why I love having my site and can create moments like that.
Sadly Eden is retired. She had the ability to make me cum like no other female before or after. Eden had one talented tongue.
Making porn real, making porn with chemistry is an ellusive creature. But I will keep on trying. LOL
It isn’t easy to fuck with several people standing around and telling you how to do it. A camera in your face or crotch, bright lights that cause me migraines, and in a room about 100 degrees or more from the lights.
If chemistry happens it is magic. WE all want that magic. I do, you do, the companies do. We all know it is special.
Some male talent is better than others and know when a gal is liking the way he fucks her. And he can make her come instantly or whenever he wants. Not all male talent is that good. Takes alot more than a big dick to do the job right. For me great sex isn’t about a big dick, but brains and consideration. So getting to know the guy, seeing how sweet and smart he is, is my turn ons. This is hard to make happen when I show up for a shoot and usually am fucking the guy within 5 minutes of meeting him.
Only the top gals can demand to work with certain guys. I am not on that level at all.
Smooches,
Sam